The New Year is a time of the year that we begin to assess where we are going in our lives. Like our birthdays, the New Year is a time-marker requiring us to take a step back and think about who we are, where we’ve been, and where we’re heading.
During Thanksgiving and Christmas we embody the status quo and do our best to get along with our family. But despite the celebrations of New Year’s Eve, January 1 usually brings with it feelings of hope mixed in with some existential dread.
January 1 is when we recommit to the gym. When we make our new year’s resolutions. When we take a moment to set new goals. The world is another year older, and so are we.
Perhaps for this reason, the new year is also one of the busiest times to file for divorce. As addressed in my first ever Podcast, many people consider the new year the perfect time to file for divorce. As part of the holiday spirt our firm has decided to give free divorce consults during the remainder of December and all of January.
For those considering divorce in the New Year, we have also recently addressed via a blog post how the federal tax change will impact how alimony is taxed, essentially making the payment or receipt of alimony a non-event for purposes of taxation.
For those contemplating a divorce in 2019, perhaps now is the time to consider marriage therapy. Many people feel deeply conflicted about filing for divorce. In my experience, I have seen people who have probably given up too early on a marriage and I have seen plenty of people who have probably hung in too long. Therapy, whether as an individual or in couple’s therapy may be a useful tool in looking through the pros and cons of making such a decision.
If your holiday is bitter-sweet or marred by the prospect of a failing marriage, we are here and we understand. Feel free to call us today or book a consultation online via our main webpage and we can help walk you through your likely rights and responsibilities should you determine to file for divorce in the New Year. Our primary telephone number at Carl Taylor Law is 908-237-3096.
Happy holidays and here is to a productive, healthy, and prosperous 2019!